Gender based Discrimination In India

Since last few days , everyone in India seems to be concerned about gender based discrimination in india, politicians,all media persons and it seems to be the most common  question asked in interviews on Tv- “are women safe”.

it is a matter of national concern.No doubt gender based discrimination in India. lets see how :

since centuries in Hindu culture a man promises to wife at time of marriage : wife – from now on you are 50% shareholder in my good deeds while you retain sole ownership of good deeds committed by you. I as husband will share 50 % of your bad deeds and you will not share my bad deeds.- just see who is the sufferer ?

Since ages in the gifts given to wife constitute her exclusive property called as Istridhan which a husband can not touch without her permission , husband has no such exclusive property after marriage which wife can not share. discrimination – yes but see who is the sufferer ?

a husband can be punished for alleged cruelty committed on wife but a wife goes unpunished even after proved cruel. – discrimination – yes but see who is victim ?

( if anyone has judgement where a wife has been punished/jailed for cruelty against husband through false allegations, false affidavits in legal proceedings – kindly share details.)

saving the marriage is sole responsibility of husband – if the marriage breaks, he pays alimony and wife retains all what is her. this distribution of assets is irrespective of the person who is cruel or who initiates the divorce.

discrimination- yes but see who is victim .

( if anyone has any judgement where wife who is earning more, posses more assets than husband has been ordered to pay alimony to husband / maintenance to husband especially when conduct of wife has been proved to be cruel- kindly share  )

There is a full fledged ministry for women welfare for men- none exists- discrimination on gender basis- yes but see who is victim.

National crime research beuro records don’t say that crimes against men are nil still everyone from government to feminists to media claim: India not safe for women, where as it is equally or more unsafe for men. 1 man commits suicide in india every 6 minutes , suicide rate for married men is double as compared to married  women in India. these figures are not my brainchild, kindly go through NCRB data which nobody wants to talk about when talking about how safe are women, of course no one wants to talk about safety of men or even safety of citizens instead of safety of women

– discrimination on basis of gender- yes but see who is victim.

a man who has a family and kids dies while saving his neighbor from some hooligans- story dies on TV after 2 days with no support to family- no honors. – no candle marches. for females the story is different.

Just Think. Your son is going to live in the same setup. he may be subjected to cruelty and made to pay for getting out of an abusive relationship and his suffering may be ignored by the society just like you are ignoring victimized men in today’s date.

I don’t think there is anything more than a balanced society which we  our children deserve.

just think – are we  going to give it to them ?

views,ideas, constructive criticism welcome.


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